Sandra responds to listener voicemails about birth control, getting a girlfriend, the problem with cowgirl, dating with too much armor on, and what to do about your erotic portrait displayed at your ex’s place. TOPICS: Virgin STDs, trusting yourself, IUD, withdrawal, intimacy, professional driving, dating site disappointment, self worth, self-esteem, empty dating site inbox, activity partners, Meetup.com, seeking medical attention, clit lacerations, embitterment toward women, deal with past hurt, ex-casual friend, fear of seeming dishonest or untrustworthy, obligation and tasteful nudes.

If you’d like to ask Sandra a question, leave a message at (310) 928-3261.

Thanks to Jason Porath, creator of Rejected Princesses, for narrating the heck out of a couple of emails.