STEALTH-ER-BATE! Sandra gets real about her deal lately and sex educator Ashley Manta throws down naughty tips for hot phone sex. TOPICS: Sex nerd vs. sex ed, feeling feelings, planning for phone sex, why vs. how and what, connective experience, verbalizing sexy, reading erotica, practice your words, narrating, honesty, Bluetooth, common barriers, breath, auditory feedback, toys, smiling sounds, moaning tips, no limitations, and negotiating phone sex.
Ashley Manta is a feminist sexuality educator, certified consulting hypnotist, and a self-proclaimed sex geek. She is a former phone sex operator and her first educational guide, “A Feminist’s Guide to Phone Sex,” was published in March 2014. She speaks candidly about living with herpes and has done extensive work to promote acceptance and break the stigma surrounding STIs. She recently launched a new sex and relationship podcast, Carnalcopia, with her best friend and partner-in-crime, Katie Mack.
Dear Sandra,I have enjoyed listening to your podcasts for two years now. Glad that I discovered you. You helped me to improve my sex life, to express my whishes to my wife and to increases my awareness of what she wants. A big big thank you from Germany.Im writing this as you have expressed your doubts about what you are and what you do. I know one other amazing internet project which is called moodscope, maybe that might help you (if you don’t know it already). Jon Cusion, who invented it, might be somewhere near you in the bay area so you might be able to do an interview with him on sex and depression :)However, what ever may be your way: follow your heart. Hope to keep hearing from you…Much love from Germany sendsMarcus
(Just make sure to find an alternate to run the podcat for a while :P)
Take care of yourself. Maybe you just need a sabbatical or a hiatus to decide what you want to do moving forward. I’m sure everyone will support you in whatever you decide is right for you 🙂